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Rebecca Loan
BRITISH COUNSELLOR PSYCHOTHERAPIST
ADHD SPECIALIST
How I can help
I'm an experienced counsellor, welcoming people of all backgrounds, cultures and identities.
Who I work with
✓ Adults
✓ Couples
✓ ADHD Adults
✓ Partner to an ADHD spouse
✓ Parent to ADHD children & teens
✓ Neurodivergent Couples
✓ Expats
✓ Third Culture Individuals
Where I work
Based in Singapore, I provide therapy to clients across the UK and internationally - in person from Chinatown and online.
The way I work
I am a Psychodynamic Counsellor, combining psychodynamic and Internal Family Systems approaches in my work with individual clients. I help adults explore and make sense of patterns, emotions and experiences that may have been unknowingly impacting their lives.
What we do
Together, we build an understanding of the different parts of you - what they need, what they desire and what they may be trying to protect. Most importantly, the work is about helping you understand yourself more deeply: your thoughts, feelings and behaviours, your relationships with others, and the way you experience the world around you.
Issues I work with
✓ Anxiety, stress and overwhelm
✓ ADHD and neurodivergence
✓ Relationship and family difficulties
✓ Workplace and career challenges
✓ Life transitions and identity
✓ Self-esteem and confidence
✓ Loss, grief and change
✓ Recurring behaviours
Therapy for adults and couples
seeking deeper understanding and lasting change.
Couples Counselling
Support for relationship difficulties, communication problems and conflict in families.
Therapy Approach
Every relationship is different. Experience has shown me that couples benefit most when therapy is adapted to the individuals involved rather than following a single approach. Drawing upon a range of couples counselling methods, we work together to understand the patterns beneath recurring difficulties, while also building on the strengths that already exist within your relationship.
ADHD in Relationships
It is particularly important in relationships where one or both partners have a neurodivergent way of thinking and responding to recognise differences in communication styles, emotional responses and expectations. Support can help with misunderstandings and disconnection and where complete breakdowns of love, care and trust have occurred.
Repairing Relationships
Whatever your neurostyle, taking some time for the both of you to focus on understanding your own and each others way of communicating can help you feel connected and understood again. Becoming aware of your relationship patterns and some tools to help you rebuilds a more stable and fulfilling relationship into the future.
Separation Support
Sometimes time apart is needed, or a relationship reaches a point where separation or divorce is the right path forward.
I provide a neutral space to work through decisions, new agreements and the practical and emotional changes involved in taking different paths.
'Rebecca offers a neuroaffirming, balanced and compassionate approach to neurodivergent adults and their partners'
Therapy for ADHD
My approach to ADHD is informed by specialist training, ongoing learning and personal experience.
Approach
My understanding and approach includes learning from people with lived experience of ADHD, alongside my own experience of more than three decades of living alongside a partner diagnosed with ADHD later in life.
Training
I am also a Certified ADHD Services Provider and continue to develop my knowledge of ADHD and the approaches that best support neurodivergent adults, couples and partners.
Neuroaffirming
I provide neuroaffirming ADHD therapy and support for adults, couples and partners navigating the impact of ADHD at work, at home and in relationships.
To me this means not seeing ADHD only as a disorder, but recognising it as a neurostyle with its own strengths, skills and challenges.
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Professional Background
UK counsellor specialising in work with anxiety, identity, relationships and neurodivergegence.
✓ 11 years counselling experience
✓ 4,000+ client hours
✓ UK-trained Psychotherapist
Key Qualifications and Training
✓ BACP Accredited Psychodynamic Counselling
✓ ADHD-Certified Clinical Services Provider
✓ Gottman Method Couples Therapy
✓ Internal Family Systems
✓ Infidelity, Affairs and Betrayals
✓ The ADHD Effect for Couples Training
Psychology Today Verified
Recommended by SSEW
5-Star Rated on Google
Common Questions
Do you work with clients outside Singapore?
Yes. I work with clients in the UK, Singapore and internationally. If you are based in another country, please feel free to enquire.
Do you offer online counselling sessions?
Singapore based clients have the option of online or in person - or a blend of the two. International clients can have sessions with me online.
Do provide therapy for adults with ADHD?
I provide specialist ADHD therapy and support for adults, partners and families, with ADHD and the impact on emotions, relationships and everyday life.
Where are you based in Singapore?
Rebecca Loan provides in-person counselling sessions at 62b Temple Street,
3 mins walk Chinatown MRT and 6 mins drive Raffles Place, Singapore.
Do you offer a free introductory call?
I offer a free 20 min call via Zoom or WhatsApp where I can tell you more about counselling with me and I can get an idea of what issues are bothering you.
How much do you charge for UK Fees?
My fees are based on where you are accessing counselling rather than a direct currency conversion.
Adults: GBP 75
Couples: GBP 100
Location
In-person counselling near Chinatown and CBD, Singapore.
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3 mins walk Chinatown MRT
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Parking available nearby
Online - UK and Worldwide
Availability and Fees
Sessions
Online and in-person individual sessions.
Session lengths are 50 mins for adults and 60 mins for couples.
Availability
Weekdays, 7am–8.30pm, by appointment.
Fees
Adults: S$265
Couples: S$295
Insurance receipts available.
Student discounts offered for those aged 18+.
